Sad morning

I am really sad today.  My step daughter is lead to believe things that are so ridiculously crazy that she wants nothing to do with our family here.
She is being raised in a home where, we are lead to believe, her mom and step dad are drug addicts and dealers, and there is nothing we can do about any of it if we can't catch them in the act.  I am sitting here crying over it, while her mom reaps the benefits of having this child around.  Ashlyn deserves so much more then what she has.
We don't have the finances to go for custody or even visitation. Her crazy mother has made it so normally we can't even find her, but the crazy thing is, the Florida courts ordered split custody, and when we moved to Maine, her mom was only to have residential custody, but they changed numbers, we were told they moved, and just couldn't find her.  When the state of FL wanted to change child support for us...they did...she told FL she didn't work, but the funny thing here is...her Facebook page says she works and has been since 11/09 to present...court was in this time period...who is she fibbing to?  Not to mention...did you know...that FL will give food stamps, health insurance, and other benefits to drug dealers, but the families who use it just to get on their feet and continue paying taxes get screwed.  Neither of them work, but ALL their bills are paid, and more!!!  People really wonder about how eff-ed up our system is.  How can the state give such a beautiful girl with so much potential to some maniacal drug whore?!?
No Matter what though...We LOVE You, Ashlyn!